High Maintenance
Yes. And?
High maintenance is just another way of saying you know what you want, you know how you want it, and you're not particularly interested in settling. Some people find that exhausting. Those people are not your problem.
This collection is for the one with standards. Opinions. A preferred order at every restaurant and a very specific way the dishwasher should be loaded.
You're not a lot. You're just a lot for the wrong people.